Everyday I begin to realize what I really feel for him it is indefinite yet it is strong. He has his way in me somehow every word he tells me impacts me dramatically. I hate it because it is a sure sign that I am falling for someone. Like each waking moment I anticipate him next to me or even a single text message makes my day. I guess those cheesy stuff in movies and song lyrics holds truth to them. But I do not tell him some of these things, I refuse to tell him because I’ll come of as clingy and annoying to him. So I keep it to myself than express my emotions to someone who doesn’t feel the same way as I do.
I take his no seriously. Like I take it as “no, I don’t wanna see you you annoying brat” or “no, I don’t wanna hang out with you you’re so boring” I know I’m being critical but who’s to blame when you get attached it’s like I can’t even explain it. He is my first choice, I am just one of his options. It’s complicated you say but I see that as an excuse for you to not have any real relationship with me because you only want the physical aspect. Your distant behaviour is the last thing I want from you. I’m getting used to it, but what’s more to this right? Nothing but disappointments.
If he can’t make time for you, find someone who can.
Simple as that and yet the feeling I bear within now cannot be easily found through someone else.
Take a second and think about the one thing that promotes attraction the most. I’ll give you a hint. The answer is not physical looks, wealth, having things in common, or even the person’s personality. I know, it’s crazy right? The answer is actually proximity. Study after study finds that most people tend to become attracted to people who are physically close to them. The theory is called the mere exposure effect, and it states that we tend to become attracted to a novel stimuli if it was repeated over and over again. I am sure you once saw a very attractive person who caught your attention while passing by your car, then you never saw him/her again. Why do most people forget about that very attractive person a few days later? Simply because they never see that person again. If the stimuli wasn’t reinforced we tend to forget about it even if we liked it. It really is true. Just talking to someone a lot can do so much. You may not even see it coming. But If you spend a considerable amount of time with someone, you could be friends one day, and before you know it, you’ve completely fallen head over heals in love with each other. Maybe this has happened to you. You can’t fight it, but why would you want to? It’s a beautiful thing, really.
Sometimes it’s our turn to swallow our pride. Sometimes we just have to accept the fact that the boys are right. Sometimes we are the ones who have to say sorry. It’s not always them. We should learn to understand them, to understand and to know what they feel. Well they are human too. Someone loves us for who we are and we should be grateful for it. Stop nagging about stuff. Let him explain. Then after that say sorry for misunderstanding him.
May mga lalake pa rin na sobrang nirerespeto ang mga babae. May mga lalake pa rin na patuloy na nagmamahal ng totoo sa mga babae. Kaya huwag idamay na pare pareho lang ang lahat ng lalake. Huwag ka maging bitter sa isang lalake at tska mo idadamay yung mga lalakeng kahit kailan eh hindi ka man lang naisipan kahit minsan lokohin.
Hindi lahat ng lalake bastos. Pero may mga lalake na bastos. Hindi lahat ng lalake manloloko, pero may mga lalake talagang manloloko. Tulad naming mga lalake, hindi kayo nalalayong mga babae. May mga babae ding nanloloko samin, may mga babae din na nag papa asa.
Tulad niyong mga babae, gusto rin naming nirerespeto, gusto rin naming ginagalang. Kumbaga, kung ano ang ibinibigay naming pag galang at pag respeto sa inyo eh ganun din sana kayo samin. Hindi kami ganun ka showy tulad niyo. Kaya madalas kami ang napapasama kasi madalas tahimik lang kami at hindi namin ugali ang mag kwento.
Wala na kasi kaming magagawa, may mga ugali kami na kapag tapos na eh maaring tapos na talaga. Takot kaming mag paliwanag, basta tahimik lang kami. Nirerespeto namin ang desisyon niyo kapag kayo ang nang iwan samin. At sa mga lalakeng nang iwan sa inyo, tanggapin niyo na lang rin na ganun talaga minsan ang pag-ibig. Maaring masaya ka noon, maaring malungkot ka ngayon. Pero darating ang araw na sasaya ka muli, dahil sa hindi lahat ng lalake ay pare pareho.
Maraming tao diyan ang handang magmahal sayo. Hindi lang makapasok. Dahil sarado ang puso mo.